That’s a huge question but an important one. For this post, I will be using a Disney reference 😍 haha! Maybe you love that, maybe you hate it, but it fits so perfectly. I couldn’t not use it! : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgXpsZa8_i4
As followers of Christ, it is SO important for us to know who we are. I don’t think the church tells us that enough not do they show steps on what that would look like. That said this will probably be a two-part post because we have a LOT of ground to cover!
What is the first thing you think of when you think of your identity? Maybe it is a hobby or your job. While those are awesome, I will legit tell you: if it’s not Christ it’s nothing. I love you but if the first thing you said wasn’t Christ then you will always be striving. You will always be searching for more. Maybe right now you’re doing fantastic at work! Your side hustle is thriving. You feel unstoppable. You would even say you feel “whole”.
I am so glad! Like for real, sooo happy for you! But if I wasn’t honest with you I would be keeping such a good thing from you.
Jesus is the only thing that never changes.
You might say “ya I know”. Then why is your identity in something that literally could be gone tomorrow… That relationship could end. That job.. could disappear. Schools everywhere literally shut down on a whim last year due to a virus no one saw coming. 😐
Everyone is real hurt by those words haha! I’ll give you a sec to forgive me for reminding you of how fragile life is.
On top of the fact that Jesus is constant, He also gives security like no other. I know I am loved beyond belief. I know any baggage I had is now gone. God cast my sins as far as the east is from the west. Amen? More than that I don’t have to look for validation anywhere else because I have the validation of the creator of the universe. The one who made the whole galaxy thinks I am to die for. The one who made the stars thinks I am a treasure.
The best part is, that will never change. On my worst day and on my best, He still loves me.
Out of that love, I can love others. Out of that love, I don’t have to fear what others say about me. Out of that love, I don’t need to search. I have met so many people who are searching. They will try anything the world has to offer to fill that hole inside. It might not even feel like a hole but it can still be there. Do you need validation constantly? Do you conform to whatever everyone else is doing even when you don’t want to? It is possible at this moment you don’t feel that any of this applies to you. However, at some point, it might. When it does, I want you to come back to this post!
If you want to be secure in your identity and you want to be sure of who you are, then you need to have Christ in the center of your life.
Once you have Christ as your center you can be secure in who you are. You know exactly who you turn to when you feel sad, lonely, or insecure. You know where to go if you need a confidence boost. You know your worth and I think, to be honest, that is the best part. There is this line in Hamilton: the musical that says “if you stand for nothing then what will you fall for.”. That is what I think of every time in terms of my identity. I know who I am therefore, I don’t fall for the things of this world. I know who God says I am and that is what matters.
Now that everyone thinks I am the most confident person ever, haha! I will say in complete honesty I don’t always feel like that. The devil is REAL good at wanting to make me feel small. If you found interest in this blog post, you might struggle with that too. The only person who didn’t struggle with that was Jesus. The best part about that though is, even Jesus was reminded of his identity. Let me show you:
“As soon as Jesus was baptized, he went up out of the water. At that moment heaven was opened, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. 17 And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” – Matthew 3:16-17
Right after Jesus was baptized, God the Father literally says from heaven: This is my Son, whom I love; with him, I am well pleased. If that isn’t the best confidence boost, I don’t know what is. After this reminder, Jesus was led into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. If Jesus needed a reminder of who he was, think about how much more we need reminders! When we are in a trial or maybe just are having a hard day. It is ok to not always feel the most secure in your identity but you need to know about things. 1. Where your identity is coming from. (hint: Jesus is always the best) 2. how to remind yourself who you are
The best part of your identity being placed in God is that you can know exactly His thoughts for you. There are so so many verses that remind you EXACTLY who you are.
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2 because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you[a] free from the law of sin and death. – Romans 8:1-2
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him – John 3:16-17 (THIS is about youuuu! He loved you!!!)
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:[a] The old has gone, the new is here! 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation – 2 Corinthians 5:17-18
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love 5 he[b] predestined us for adoption to sonship[c] through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— Ephesians 5: 4-5
For in him the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily, 10 and you have been filled in him, who is the head of all rule and authority. 11 In him also you were circumcised with a circumcision made without hands, by putting off the body of the flesh, by the circumcision of Christ,– Colossians 2 9-11 ( We are made WHOLE in Christ. So many Christians are walking around broken when they could be made whole.)
Why is this important —>I need to know so fully who I am that when the devil tells me otherwise I can say “nope, you’re wrong!”
Write that down! Put it somewhere. You NEED to know who you are! The devil doesn’t mess around. He isn’t going to say Hi this is the devil speaking, you suck. No! The devil is smooth, he knows your insecurities. The devil knows how to make you feel shame. The devil doesn’t want you to know who you are so he can be the one to define you. Don’t let his smooth-talking make you feel unworthy!
So, why did I say this would tie into Moana? Well let me tell you, Moana KNOWS who she is. Period. The whole time she is confident. She says “I am Moana of Motunui” like a hundred times. She goes through allll these random things that are purposeful but could have easily made her give up. When she is about to turn back and call it quits on her mission, her grandma reminds her who she is. No matter how secure we are, we need people to remind us who we are. However, the more secure you are the less it happens.
I believe God really wants his people to be secure in themselves so that they can love people to the fullest. Part 2 of this will most definitely come soon… if yall want to read it of course haha! 😉 I would love to talk to you more about this if you have any questions! As always, much love and God bless! – Isabel 🙂